Back from the best holiday of this year !

Time spent with parents remind childhood the best .My sister is a topping there ..7 days passed with them make me feel the taste of peace through out.Home made cooking ,new dishes ,endless gossip ,sky watching sitting in roof with my sister cum best friend is like spending best part of life .Every time I meet them I just repent why I am growing old ,I want my childhood back .They act as an time machine.They have a magical power of making me 10 years younger ,making me a innocent girl ,they work hard so that I can rest ,they are the people who actually make me feel alive ..

When they go back they fill my mind with so much positivity ,power ,strength ,joy and  silent sadness ,an attempt of hiding sorrow,red corners somewhere in eyes ,drop of tears..

But we do come back to our regular world and becom the best robot out of us who keeps on playing ..


Bad times are like bad dreams!

Imagine a morning with fresh start after a sound sleep though you had a bad dream for few minutes .Life is a combination of good and bad where neither good times stays forever nor bad time tortured you through our life.

Bad time gives you lesson where as good times give you memory both are equally important for flows like a river where mountains and planes both exists ..

It’s important to keep calm,deal bad times tactfully and wait for good times as well as pray to God to give strength.Lot of people looses calm and take around g decisions at their bad times where’s as there are people who take wrong decisions at their good times too.Money usually makes people arrogant and proudy they often forget they have passed from bad times what may come in future so they should be equally polite ,calm and plan for future instead of loosing self control,dealing badly with others .Beacuse it’s only people around you who will become your strength at your bad times and if you will disrespect / ignore them at your good time why they will stand beside you.

So enjoy good after planning for bad and be strong and hope for good when you are in bad faces of life .After all sunshine and rainfall both are equally important to live ..

lets go towards perfection

Let’s think twice and react ..

Though this incident was not sudden and unexpected I was bit shocked why it took bit of time to happen ..Every place comes with mixture of good,bad people .There are people who always appreciate,motivate where as there are few who always criticise but there are few who do none of them and are always unhappy and keeps on spreading negativity about a person or about behaviour ..
Mr.Bill Gates said something like his source of input for improvement are the unhappy customers.I believe he must have said this because these are the people who always points on the faulty segments / places where you have to improve..People who always appreciate you are your strength you should always love ,respect them.but to me the most harmful are the people who spread negetivity points you out with blame because of nothing or may be their own personal jealousy.I am sharing a recent incident happened to my dear friend few days back.

He used to work in a place and was planning to leave it because he was hardly satisfied working there ,was not getting any exposure .He was a workaholic and a good decision maker but there were hardly some work at that place which was exciting him.He was gradually loosing interest working there though he was perfectly doing his everyday duty.Arguements started taking place every now and then because he liked to utilize his own decision making skills..Going office became like visiting jail to him .He informed his dissatisfaction to the authority and finally a day has come when both have concluded discontinuity of work tenure ..He was relaxed and started feeling fresh .Luckily his colleagues were very friendly and cooperative .He had done all his duty very professionally till last date of work appointment..After he left some rumours were spread that his performance was not upto the mark and his behaviour was not proper so the organisation has decided to throw him away.People who were close to him called him up and were surprised to know this and said everybody is aware of the true fact then how come this kind of statements are in the air..He felt sad and talked to me ..

I smiled and consoled saying which one is more important .Your freedom / rumours .Hoe does it matter who is saying what when you have your all formal papers .Trust me people forgets things too easily .So don’t be demotivated .You are confident ,skilled then how does that matter what 20/25 people are taking about you .Most importantly your colleague liked,respected your work nature so they must be knowing the real fact so your should not be worried about but yes there are few people who can’t judge / make their decision they just go with flow ..Does it really matter what they are thinking .The place the suffocating you ,you wanted to have a better place with better sky is yours,you can fly now.Dont worry about this minor stuffs .100 trivial things like this will come your way.Simply ignore .Don’t react beacuse people will catch your reaction and colorize it their way.He smiled with peace thanked me numerous times.Suddenly I felt happy thinking that I can really make somebody feel better seems like something is there in me naturally as a God’s gift.

Friends let me know if there are anything I can help you with.I will surely do..Life is all about sharing happiness and diluting sadness .Keep smiling

Budda-An idol of peace

Back to my corner !

Life is a mixture of good / bad,best / worst ,happiness / sadness .Who knows it better than me! I was truly missing my mom,my sister and everything related to my childhood but some how when I saw my husband is eagerly waiting to receive me in station all my sadness,sorrow vanished away.May be this is called life ,a circle about new things ,new bonding ,new attachment what gives you strength to move on.

Slowly and gradually I got involved into all the homely things ,everyday’s cooking ,cleaning etc and I deeply realised one thing that I have to play multiple roles for multiple relationships ..I must find some time for myself to pamper me,to take some rest,to get deep rooted to organise myself and things around me and plan further ..Else I will never be able to keep my other responsibilities .I decided to take a break.Break from my extremely busy career to reorganize my own self,to decide the priority and do the rest ..

Mom I want to stay with you forever!

I am screaming from inside but wearing a smile outside ..Time has come to go back to my in laws place leaving my childhood place,gardens,old book shelves,sadness point crafted by me …

My mind is shouting from inside why I have grown up why not my only relationship is with my parents and sister.Why I have another home why I have other responsibility ?Why can’t I have a time machine to go back to my childhood and destroy the machine and throw excuses like I can’t go back to present time ? I know it sounds odd and selfish but these home,corners,gardens,roof top secret places,books,notes,shelves,dolls,handcrafted stuffs are very much engraved in me and attracts me reminds me of childhood .These place is strong enough to clear stress,bad feelings,sadness,emptyness,arguements and all suppressed pains and incomplete discussions/ questions / arguements .

I have nothing to decide because I have go go back but some how my soul will be here ,in this home,with my parents,with my old book shelves,,covered in this lovely curtains ,walking in the beautiful garden..

Prawn curry in coconut milk

Today’s lunch was trully mind-blowing and reminded my best memories of childhood.Out of all the one my mind loves the most is coconut curry .

It just takes coconut kernels ,fresh cream,tiger prawns,salt,Termeric,sugar,white mustard a bit

Take oil in a pan > fry prawns > add salt> Termeric > pinch of sugar > add mixture of coconut kernel paste mixed with white mustard paste > let it be for few minutes to fry all together and get gel with each other and boil as well.A nice smell will indicate completion of the dish.Takw time and keep all it in a very low flame ..

Time to enjoy


Learning from everyone ..

We often think that we have grown and we are more or less aware of almost all the things needed to live a good live everyday ..We close our mind and take lessons from only those who are seniors to us either in terms of age or in terms of social respects and money ..But we often forget there are mistakes we keep on doing everyday and our closed mind hardly welcome any suggestions / criticism

We can learn even from a child,from the person who comes our home everyday for cleaning / washing clothes.Better we change looking out at things .Let every person be a source of knowledge and learn good things from all ..Don’t ever judge any one by his/ her social position ,bank balance,age..

Trust me you will get to learn good things every day..

I am learning ..Growing everyday…


Departing is not always bad!

Well ..There are only few days left in my current workplace nad you will actually be able to spot who are your real friends,who are the people have always shown you smiling faces for their benefits and people who were rude but true from heart ..

So,it’s time of self learning “how to know people” and get the knowledge inside for rest of life.

There are people who say will miss you ,it’s pleasure working with you but actually happy inside because one rat is out the race where as there are people who sadly says who will show us new creative stuffs and motivate us to do more,who will point out our mistakes and shout to fix those..But it’s always a mixture of good and bad experiences where I got few friends ,few good relationships and came to know the real faces behind mask..Somewhere I heard a quote like life gives you either good experiences or good lessons so both are beneficial for you.

Some times I feel human face is the most beautiful mask I have ever seen in life.Lol..

On the other way around I am counting days to go to home and spend few days with them.So ,sooner these days will pass sooner I will be able to go to my mom’s lap..

Working like a Robot / Getting happiness from work ?

Well..It has become habit of most of us to get salary at a certain date of month because we can’t live without shopping in Flipkart / Amazon / etc..Still it’s worth for people who use it for the purposes like doing necessary stuffs like buying groceries,medicines,giving room rents.

We often forget to ask us are we happy with the job / do we really love working or it’s just like another habit ..Is this something what gives happiness?Is anything better I can do except this ?Am I really positive doing all this ??

Even I was lost untill some dissatisfaction started bubbling in my mind..I felt I can really do something much better than what I am doing.and trust me it’s tough if you are not appreciated though you are doing good and told to downgrade your planning and visualization.Do not do whatever you are told in your workplace blindly .Think ,rethink as yourself 20 times and do if you really feel it’s necessary .Have self confidence .Just yourself,judge instructions

Trust me.If you can’t love working you can’t live working .If you have visions,good management skill don’t simply go away,realise and decide .You never know may be you deserve something better than existing and it’s time to get better and more classy people,Ambience,quality of work.